{"id":5108,"date":"2025-08-04T18:42:36","date_gmt":"2025-08-04T18:42:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites.rutgers.edu\/writers-house-review\/?page_id=5108"},"modified":"2026-03-04T20:25:55","modified_gmt":"2026-03-04T20:25:55","slug":"what-ive-learned","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/sites.rutgers.edu\/writers-house-review\/vol-6-winter-2025-2027\/what-ive-learned\/","title":{"rendered":"What I&#8217;ve Learned"},"content":{"rendered":"<hr \/>\n<h4><em>Natalia Ayala<\/em><\/h4>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That heroes don\u2019t always wear capes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My t\u00edo saves lives not with powers but a badge.\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That beauty is not what\u2019s reflected in a mirror.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I see it in my friend\u2019s patience and kindness as he tutors me in statistics.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That there is nothing as contagious as laughter.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0 \u00a0We clumsily dance the bachata at our cousins&#8217; quincea\u00f1era.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That the underdogs can win.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Out of nowhere, my brother&#8217;s soccer team scores four goals in the second half.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That the good guy can lose.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My sister\u2019s softball team walks away from their championship in defeat.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That the unknown can be an adventure.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0We travel aimlessly but excited through the winding roads of Orocovis.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That everyone should follow their passions.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I push myself in class every day to pursue a career in film.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That family is everything, but friends can be more.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I call my friend JP with tears in my eyes after a rough day.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That I can be anything.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My father travels between New York and Connecticut, ready to work hard so I can go to school.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That no one is perfect.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My favorite photo: my mom\u2019s hair wild as a bird&#8217;s nest, a smile as bright as the sun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That grief isn\u2019t linear.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0Each time I watch a new film, I know that she would have sat by me, even if she hated it.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That to move forward does not mean to move on.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0As I continue to grow and learn, I feel her by my side every step of the way.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That people come and people go, but they&#8217;re never forgotten.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0We talk about the moments when she would pull everyone onto the dance floor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That I am not alone.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0I stand alongside my family, t\u00edos, t\u00edas, and friends.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">That I will be okay.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0My mother told me so.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Natalia Ayala<\/strong> is from Ridgefield, Connecticut, and is expected to graduate in May 2027 as a cinema studies major. 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